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Feelings

Saturday, October 17th, 2009

Everyone has them.. Weather they are good  or bad.. Broken or not. We need to think before we speak or take action.. I am very guilty of this.. But I am not the only one.. This blog has come about from a conversation today.. Feelings go very deep with some people and they look like nothing bothers them… Then all of a sudden they show up in the oddest places…Then there are others that show there feelings right away… (sometimes I feel this is the least stressful..)But when you hurt someone who does not show it… (And most of the time you don’t even know that you have done something wrong)..

My actions in the next feel weeks will explain where this blog comes from… Its not my place to right this wrong and I don’t know how to with out making more hurt feelings.. Feelings are a tricky think…

You can have a good feeling for someone , with someone, about someone.. Hurt feelings are the same… I for instance feel good if I get a call, even tho I hate the phone.. I hate to make calls.. (feel like I bother people at the wrong time..) I think this is one of the reasons I get along with my oldest granddaughter she will make no bones about telling you she is busy… and she does not mince words… This can hurt your feelings if you don’t understand her… Then again she in bluntly honest and you know that she is not telling you a story to get rid of you… LOL… Emails can be read and answered when you want to… sometimes never.. I have a friend that if you want to send her a email it better not be something to be answered in the next week… She just does not take the time to get on computer that she shares… Facebook.. we share this with family and close friends… we have to watch how we say things as some feelings can get rubbed the wrong way… And language is a feeling thing also… Twitter… feeling get in my way on that thing… I @ someone and lots of people don’t answer them…

So you see feelings are a big thing and can go on and on and you just don’t know what is going on next…

When I don’t have a sale on my book store I take my feeling out and tell everyone… Then its over and sometimes the next day I have a sale… Maybe its because I talk to God.. I don’t get down on my knee’s but we talk on a regular basic…. I don’t listen most of the time… and I guess I hurt feelings and don’t realize.. Till he hits me over the head with something… Then I go  Oh ya…

Feeling can go on and on and this is what I am doing going on and on….

Feelings are a big thing and can be crushed or come out smelling like a rose…. So next time you act or speak think before you do… Remember some one is on the other end…

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